Thursday, January 1, 2026

Holiday greetings

 

from our family to yours.


We begin the New Year with hearts overflowing following a wonderful Christmas with our girls in  Florida. We can’t think of a better gift. Since many of you often inquire about them, we are happy to give you updates.

Holly remains in the Florida panhandle. In addition to teaching enrichment programs (Spanish and music) to preschoolers, she is a Professional Development Specialist for educators working on their Child Development credentials. She uses her gift of music by singing with the Northwest Florida Symphony Chorale and uses her experiences to advocate for other Gold Star survivors by serving on the Air Force Survivor Advocacy Council.


Alison continues to work in marine mammal conservation at UNCW. 

She uses her music talent to play trumpet with the UNCW Jazz Combo, the Wilmington Symphonic Winds, Wilmington Virtuosi Brass, and Costal Carolina Orchestra. In addition, as part of the GSTA team (Gold Star Teen Adventures,) she mentors and instructs Gold Star teens in scuba diving.

Camille is currently dancing with the St. Louis Dance Theater and teaches young, aspiring dancers.

Since we are on the route to her mom’s home, she stops by several times a year. (Wherever her career takes her, we hope we will always be on her route.) Grandma (aka ABN) loves spending time with her in the craft studio.

All three are accomplished cooks which made it fun to watch as they worked in the kitchen. We were reminded of the girls standing on stools as Holly taught them how to use the mixer, break eggs, measure ingredients and many other culinary skills. Needless to say, we ate well. The energy, laughter, music, and a little happy chaos made for a wonderful Christmas.

2025 is now history. It was rich with travel, friends, new experiences, blooms, butterflies, birds, and ended with wonderful family time.

The Wanderer is resting quietly in storage as The Beast (aka GMC Yukon Denali) steps up to justify his price tag. In September he took us on the bourbon trail, in October to Austin, Texas for the wedding of our niece. Okay, Claire is not actually our niece, but we love her as though she were. The Beast, and Captain, were honored with the distinction of being two of the most useful guests by transporting other guests as well as loads of wedding essentials. In December, the Beast made for a comfortable drive to Florida.

As a new year begins, we are reminded (well at least ABN is) of past New Year resolutions. They were usually the typical ones, get more exercise, lose weight, eat healthier, get organized, and the list went on. As we continue on our journey to age richly, that has changed a bit.

No longer are they resolutions, but more like goals. Eating well is not about losing weight but trying not to gain, instead of calories, we are focused on sodium and sugar intake, exercise means keeping mobile and instead of organizing, we plan to continue the decluttering. As we all know (okay some of you may be in denial) we will continue to age as long as we breath and there is nothing we can do about it, but we do have a bit of control on how we age. And that, friends, is our goal for 2026.